Overcoming Obstacles

When getting blocked by any obstacle, you can always rise out of it and create better circumstances for yourself aligning to your values and morals.

I have experienced times when that type of advice hasn't been easily received. When you are in the thick of it, the obstacle can feel crippling down to your soul. I know this, I have felt this, but let me tell you, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. Here is a bit about how I found that light.

• Focus on solutions not the obstacles

Obstacles are a part of life.. The great thing is, many of us share similar journey’s or issues in our journeys. Find solutions by any means (even through Google). Yes I said Google, but seriously be open to getting help in any and every way possible. Ask people you trust. Read. Learn. Don’t stop till you find a way to connect the dots and outline some steps to overcome your obstacle.

• Be willing to take risks

Let go of control and certainty (not that we ever truly have either of those). I think this can be a hard one, I know for me personally It has been a challenge. Learning patience and trusting that things will fall into place takes courage and bravery. Knowing that if things don't work out the first time, guess what- you can and will try again and step by step, you'll get through.

• Accept the present moment and let go

It can be really hard to let go of your current expectations or frustration when dealing with an obstacle. The key is to let go so you can create space, inside yourself and in your life for solutions and opportunities.

• Empower yourself to define YOUR everything

The only person who can really empower yourself is you. Sounds logical, but often we feel blocked by people, our past, situations, a job, finances, debt, mental/emotional pain, etc. however you can empower yourself to define your life. One that you choose. One that you work for. One that you stay true to yourself in.

This little piece of advice is written in my notebook and a reminder when dealing with difficult people: Accept people and meet them exactly where they are.

Don't let any obstacle or fear of the unknown stop you from living a life aligning to your values or passion.

Life is short, own your power.